Pagan Parenting – A Spell to Heal a Friendship

The ED was going through a complex friendship dynamic earlier this year and asked me to write and perform a spell with her to help the situation. In the end I came up with this spell, a variation of a love spell which is intend to create harmony between friends.

This spell will take place over three days starting on a Friday and ending on a Sunday. Moon phase does not matter overly but a waxing phase would be ideal.

  • Two pink spell candles
  • One orange spell candle
  • A pin

Carve the names of the friends into the pink candle and your own name in the orange candle using the pin.

On the first day set the candles out in a space they will not be disturbed. They should be in a line with the pink flanking the orange candle in the centre spaced about two centimetres apart.

Light the first pink candle and say the inscribed name and think about why you are friends.

Light the second pink candle and say hello name, thinking about why you are friends.

Light the orange candle and say;
“Step by step (name) and (name) will be united as friends once more.”

Visualise to two friends being friendly towards each other as the candles burn down.

Allow the candles to burn about 1/3 of the way. The type of candle you are using will dictate how long this takes. I recommend using 10 cm chime candles (sometimes called spell candles) so you aren’t at it ages. Once ready blow out the candles.

Repeat this process for a second day, moving the candles candles closer, until they are about 1 cm apart and lighting the candles in the same order with the same words.

On the third day move the candles into a triangle so that they are touching and the wax can mingle together.

Light the candles and this time allow the candles to burn down and the wax to mingle. As you light the candles say;

“United once more, (name) and (name) are united in their friendship with me.”

Once the candles have burned down dispose of the remains of the spell appropriately.


About knotmagick

Weaving Magick and Crochet in the madhouse I call home. I am a devotee of Hekate and a follower of Pan.
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